Relationship Issues: See Your Patterns, Change Your Dynamics.

Your Relationship problems aren't really about you or your partner - they're about the unconscious patterns you both keep playing out!

Our visual whiteboard method reveals exactly what's happening in your relationship by mapping out your own words and reactions. Using our 10 prompt words, we explore the situation you're dealing with - the conflicts, triggers, and cycles that keep repeating.

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Here's what becomes clear on the whiteboard

  • Your actual patterns (not what you think you're doing)
  • Where you're taking responsibility vs. where you're blaming
  • What you're unconsciously creating in the dynamic
  • The real outcome if these patterns continue
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The breakthrough moment comes with our final prompt: What would be the outcome if you or your partner continued this behavior in the relationship? That's when people see exactly where their current patterns are leading - and realize they have the power to change the entire dynamic, the good the bad and the ugly.



  • constant arguments over the same issues
  • Feeling unheard or taken for granted
  • Attraction to unavailable partners
  • Fear of intimacy or commitment

Our whiteboard reveals how YOUR patterns contribute to these cycles - and more importantly, how changing your patterns transforms the entire relationship.

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You can't control your partner, but you can see and change what you're bringing to the dance.

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When you gently explore your part instead of focusing on theirs, new possibilities open up.

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Your relationship patterns aren't your fault - but they are your opportunity to create something different.

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When you change how you show up, the whole relationship can transform.